10 Steps to Attract the Life You Want

By Heather Mathews
Author of Manifestation Miracle

“What you seek is seeking you.” – Rumi

If I told you that you could create the exact type of circumstances you want, would you call me crazy?
What if your very thoughts could create ripples of change that not only impact your life…but those around you as well?

Philip, a call center worker from the Philippines certainly didn’t think so. He dreamed of moving overseas so he could secure a better life and provide for his family. 
But at every turn, his own mind shut down every opportunity he thought of. 
For instance, Philip considered seeing an immigration consultant, but he either “didn’t have the time” or “couldn’t afford it”.

So, he resented his situation and cursed himself (and the world) for his “bad luck”. 
He didn’t realize that the real culprit was his mindset – not his circumstances. 
And it seemed like the more he ruminated, the more bad things happened. 

Thus, he kept feeding the cycle of being stuck in a rut and feeling bad, trapping him even more.
That was, until his aunt Sara introduced him to the Law of Attraction.

Turning the tide

Before she moved to California, Sara had been close with Philip and treated him like a son. 
She had her own share of struggles finding greener pastures abroad, but she applied the principles from the Law of Attraction to overcome them. 
So she sent a few books on the topic to Philip through Amazon so he could gain the clarity to turn his life around.

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At first, Philip didn’t really think much of it, but he decided to read through the books since his aunt went through the trouble of sending them over.
After he started applying the lessons he learned from the material, things started to change for him. 
It came as a complete shock to Philip – he never thought in a million years that making a simple shift in his thinking could have such a direct and POWERFUL impact in his life.
And soon enough, the fog of negativity and despair around Philip lifted and he found a way to make his dreams happen. 
Through his persistence, he was eventually able to borrow the money he needed for the consultation fees, and learned the step-by-step process to get work overseas.
Philip was finally able to find a fulfilling and rewarding career in Australia. Not only does he get to support his family back home, he also made friends and enjoys his new life abroad.

Just a few months ago, Philip’s parents started their own business, thanks to his help. 
At the rate they’re going, his family could save enough so they can pass on their business to another relative and follow Philip to Australia.
Whatever option Philip chooses, the possibilities for him are almost limitless.

But he’s just one of thousands who made the Law of Attraction to work for him. Like Philip, a lot of people are initially discouraged to try because they think it takes a lot of work.
But the reality is that it’s surprisingly easy to get started. You just need to follow these 10 Super Simple Steps to Attract Everything You’ve Ever Wanted:

Step #1: A little gratitude goes a long way

The first thing you should learn about the Law of Attraction is that it operates on energy.
YOUR energy, to be exact.
Everyone has a different kind of energy they bring into the world, and it affects them in ways they often don’t see or appreciate.
The secret lies in the FREQUENCY of a person’s energy -and you need to raise yours in order to change your life.
Think of your unique energy as a sort of gas that fills the space of your reality. Whatever “gas” or “energy” you pump out into your immediate space will define your existence.

Viktor Frankl, a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor, said this in his book, “Man’s Search for Meaning”:
“To draw an analogy: a man’s suffering is similar to the behavior of a gas. If a certain quantity of gas is pumped into an empty chamber, it will fill the chamber completely and evenly, no matter how big the chamber. Thus suffering completely fills the human soul and conscious mind, no matter whether the suffering is great or little. Therefore the “size” of human suffering is absolutely relative.”

So if you want to invite great things into your life, you need to set the stage first. And you can do that by leading with the right energy.
That’s why being grateful and appreciating what you have is powerful way to recalibrate your frequency.
Most folks hold off on feeling this way for AFTER they get what they want. But that’s putting the cart before the horse, as the saying goes.
When you LEAD with gratitude, it will act as the precedent for everything good that follows.

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What I like to do is start off my day by making a list of things that I’m grateful for. If I miss anything, I save it for later and update my list at the end of my day.
And when I go over my list during the weekend, I’ll see exactly how much good stuff I’ve accumulated. 
This creates a kind of snowball effect and helps me attract even MORE good stuff down the road.

Step #2: Be generous

This can be a challenge for some people if they feel like there isn’t enough to go around.
But if you take the initiative to SHARE whatever you can without asking anything in return…you’ll generate the kind of energy that attracts prosperity for everyone…including YOU.
Again, this is the Law of Attraction at work. 
Try offering your time, talents and material wealth to those who need it – you’ll soon invite blessings without even trying.

Step #3: Visualize your future

What I find amazing about kids is how powerful their imaginations are. 
When they role-play with other children, you can see in their eyes how REAL their games are to them.
This is something that’s lost on grown-ups, and it’s important to recapture that ability to envision the kind of reality you want.
The Universe likes to play games with us- the better you are at visualizing, the more you’ll be rewarded. 
Like I said, a certain type of energy attracts a certain kind of reality. 
So if you focus your energy and thoughts on that dream job you want or the car you’ve always wanted to drive, you’ll raise your frequency to ATTRACT those exact things. 

Step #4: Let the negativity pass

When the bad times roll in and you feel like dirt, sometimes it’s better to step aside and let it run its course.
Having negative thoughts and emotions are totally normal, but you don’t always have to wrestle with them. 
You can simply acknowledge what’s going on in your inner world – then CHOOSE to keep moving forward anyway.
Let this negative energy pass through your system like a bad case of gas. The sooner you let it do its thing, the quicker you can get back to what you were doing.
(Sorry for the fart analogy, but it get the point across, doesn’t it?) 

Step #5: Never stop growing

It’s good to have a daily routine in your life, but not at the expense of your personal development.
Most people are so set in their ways that they’re afraid of the thought of doing something new. 
Then they complain about their humdrum lives, or that some folks “have all the luck.”
Breaking out of your comfort zone is never an easy thing, but it’s a step worth taking.
No matter how loaded your schedule is, find some chunks of time to do things that will help you grow. 
Whether it’s taking an online course, joining a community, or taking up a hobby, this is a powerful way to attract new and exciting things in your life.

Step #6: Avoid the “toxic” crowd

There are people who seem hell-bent on pulling others into their world of misery.
Whether they’re trying to lessen their own pain or simply enjoy doing it, you need to steer clear of them.
Instead, choose people who will have the opposite effect on your psyche. Not only does a person’s energy attract circumstances, it’s also CONTAGIOUS.
So make sure you hang out with the people who’ll inspire you to achieve greater things – and not bring you down with apathy or inaction.

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Step #7: Give yourself permission to succeed

Most of the world’s most brilliant people were put down in some way. 
Somewhere along the way, someone told them they’d “never make it” or were “destined to fail.”
In your own life, certain people have tried to discourage you in some way. 
They might have tried putting you down when you were growing up – or it could have been last week.
It doesn’t matter.
What’s important is that you understand that NO ONE can put labels on you. 
And more importantly, they can NEVER give you permission to achieve what you want in life. You need to do that for yourself.
Don’t let their words define your “story”. You don’t have to fit whatever petty narrative they’re trying to force on you.

Step #8: Affirm who you are

Instead of feeding into the lies that people tell you, let this be the day to start living your truth.
Create statements that embody the truth you choose to be, AND to live in.
People do this all the time. 
When Elon Musk tried to launch the world’s first privately owned rocket and failed, he told himself, “I’m going to try again, and I WILL get that thing into orbit.” (Well, maybe not exactly like that, but you get the point.)
And so his company SpaceX went back to the drawing board and got it right after the third attempt. 
Elon affirmed his truth and it manifested into reality. In the same way, you can choose to affirm whatever truth applies to you. 
Be honest with yourself and acknowledge the things that TRULY matter to you. 
You know it, and the Universe knows it.

The key is to repeat it to yourself every day. For example, if you know deep in your heart that you want to make a better life for yourself, you can say something like this:
“I may be struggling right now, but I know deep inside that I have what it takes to improve my life. I see myself transforming into a happier, wealthier person who makes other people’s lives brighter.”

When you operate from even the tiniest shred of truth, you can grow that into a powerful force over time.

Step #9: Fail spectacularly

Here’s something most people don’t know about the Law of Attraction: before you can enjoy success and find true happiness, you need to crash and burn.
It’s better to go after what you want and risking failure rather than playing it safe and not trying at all.
To create order in your life, you’ll have to embrace the chaos that comes before it.
This is where you’ll find the real lessons, even if they hurt a little. 
(Or in some cases, a LOT).
Think of yourself as the beautiful Phoenix, like in the legends. 
Imagine burning off bits and pieces of yourself that you don’t need. As you rise from the ashes, you’re reborn into a NEW YOU.
That’s evolution. It may be an imperfect and unpleasant process, but the results are worth it.

Step #10: Remove your BIGGEST barrier to success

People don’t realize that their greatest roadblock is none other than their own mindset.
They may say they want something to happen, but don’t REALLY mean it.
For instance, someone might want to lose weight, but they don’t want it bad enough.
Worse, they might not actually believe they can shed those pounds. A part of them refuses to acknowledge the faintest possibility of it happening.
This is pretty much why people NEVER attract the things they want in life.
In order to remove this barrier, you’ll need to change something inside you. 
You need to dig deep and understand WHY you don’t want it as much as you say you do.
Are you scared of suffering through the process of getting what you want? 
This is what turns most people off – they simply can’t process the discomfort involved with growing up.
At the same time, you need to deal with the reasons why you think that your desired reality is impossible.
It could be some deep-seated beliefs brought about by past events, or experiences growing up. 
Once you sort this out, you’ll be free to do what you want without any pre-programmed beliefs holding you back. 

Now, these ten steps we just talked about will get your foot in the door. Once you start taking them regularly, you’ll experience remarkable breakthroughs you didn’t think were possible.
But if you want to witness even MORE changes on a massive (or even cosmic) scale, you need to check out my FULL course called Manifestation Miracle.
Like the name suggests, I enjoyed nothing short of a life-changing revolution not too long ago. 
In a lot of ways, my situation was the same as Philip’s. I worked myself to the bone and felt unfulfilled. 
I was trapped in my soul-crushing career. Even though I needed the money, I HATED having to put up a hollow appearance of a happy, successful businesswoman.
But then I discovered how turn my mind into a magnet for prosperity and abundance…
Learn how I unlocked the secret to ATTRACTING anything AND everything I wanted – CLICK HERE to watch the video now…

Hope you enjoyed Heather’s guest blog.

Keep manifesting 🙂
Tony

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A Controversial Version of the Lord’s Prayer

I was raised in a strict Roman Catholic family. Along with the Hail Mary, I used to recite the Lord’s Prayer almost daily. I even considered becoming a priest.

Over time I could no longer accept Roman Catholic dogma and eventually joined the United Church. But I kept searching for my spiritual centre. Perhaps like you.

I investigated Buddhism, Hinduism, Theosophy, Baha’i, Rosicrucianism and Unitarian beliefs. I read the Bible, the Qur’an, the Bhagavad Gita and other sacred texts. Practiced yoga and meditation. Studied and took courses in The Silva Method, Neurolinguistic Programming , Therapeutic Touch, Reiki, Emotional Freedom Technique [EFT or Tapping], metaphysics and the Law Of Attraction. Joined Unity.

All the while I continued to read, investigate, study, learn, grow and evolve as a “spiritual being in an earth suit”. Part of my research led me to this new interpretation of The Lord’s Prayer.

It has apparently been helpful to many people.  Perhaps it will be of assistance to you too.

You see, today we have available many more accurate translations of this prayer. They reveal that it was originally intended to be a series of affirmations. They are intended as a frame of reference in which to think about and pray the Lord‘s Prayer.

You can use this version on its own merit. As part of your daily ritual or morning routine.

Note the “traditional” words which are then followed by the reinterpretation of each affirmation.

Our Father who art in heaven: I am now conscious of the infinite and eternal Presence in whom I live and by which I think and create.

Hallowed be Thy name: This Presence in me is whole and complete. It is the activity of health that heals, of intelligence that inspires, of substance that prospers, and of love that harmonizes.

Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven: I am a glorious possibility of the Presence. I now let its perfect idea of me unfold in me and through me. My desire for betterment is the desire of the Presence to perfect that which it is expressing as me, and I let it have its way. I see myself doing that which it sees me as being.

Give us this day our daily bread: I have no existence outside of the Presence, for I am that Presence expressing as me. Therefore, I can never be separated from the all-sufficient substance of the opulent Universe. I claim my divine inheritance and I daily, perpetually, manifest abundant supply.

And forgive us our trespassers, as we forgive those who trespass against us: The Presence in me is my potential for dissolving all conflicts or transgression. The Presence is Love, and it lives in me and through me as I forgive. It releases me as I loose and let go of all my limited thoughts about myself or others.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil
: The Presence in me is my light and my deliverance. There is no darkness in the light, and there can be no darkness in me when I am established in spiritual unity with the Presence within me – which is “better than light and safer than a known way”.

[For Thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory, forever and ever and ever]: In all that I seek to be or do or have, I humbly realize that in the Presence is my power to think, my very thought of aspiration, my will to commence, my strength to keep on, my power to achieve, and the glory of all my accomplishments.

Amen: This is the truth, and it is now done.

This interpretation has been adapted from “Discover The Power Within You [ A Guide To The Unexplored Depths Within]”, by the “20th century Emerson”, Eric Butterworth. Feel free to revise it for your own use.

In this version I have taken the liberty of replacing the word “God” with the word “Presence”.  To some people, the name of God has negative connotations. They think of the God of the Old Testament. The old guy with the white beard who sits on his golden throne up in heaven, judging and condemning, full of wrath, and damning sinners to hell. The God that humanity had made in the image of man, rather than the one who created man in his image.

Keep manifesting 🙂
Tony

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Your Very Best Quote of the Week -Vol.5

Each Saturday I share with you a really good quote. Now, the weekly quote may be one that I enjoy the most or perhaps one that is quite controversial, or unusual, or thought-provoking.

You may agree with it. Or not.
Either way, please let me know what you think.

July 6,2019
“The aim of life is self-development. To realize one’s nature perfectly – that is what each of us is here for.”
Oscar Wilde

June 29,2019
“If you are successful, it is because somewhere, sometime, someone gave you a life or an idea that started you in the right direction. Remember also that you are indebted to life until you help some less fortunate person, just as you were helped”
Melinda Gates

June 22,2019
“Find out who you are and be that person. That’s what your soul was put on this Earth to be. Find that truth, live that truth, and everything else will come.”
Ellen DeGeneres

June 15,2019
“Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results”
Willie Nelson

June 8,2019
“The world, as we have created it, is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
Albert Einstein

June 1,2019
“Here’s a secret… you literally become what you think about. If you want that dream life, start visualizing it every day.”
Vladimir Raikov

May 25,2019
“If we can just let go and trust that things will work out the way they’re supposed to, without trying to control the outcome, then we can begin to enjoy the moment more fully. The joy of the freedom it brings becomes more pleasurable than the experience itself.”
Goldie Hawn

May 18,2019
“Every act of kindness and compassion toward others gets multiplied when they, in turn, pass it on.
One by one the world becomes a better place.
Service is indeed the gift that keeps on giving.”
Joan Borysenko

May 11,2019
“Stop acting as if life is a rehearsal. Live this day as if it were your last. The past is over and gone. The future is not guaranteed.”
Dr. Wayne Dyer

May 4,2019
“The greatest gift you can ever give another person is your own happiness…
A happy life is just a string of happy moments.
But most people don’t allow the happy moment, because they’re so busy trying to get a happy life.”
Esther Hicks

April 27,2019
“As women self-actualize, society evolves…If you plant the seeds, a force bigger than you will propel them to grow.”
Claire Zammit

April 20,2019
“All of us are given a certain amount of crap to compost. Get it out of you so that you can mix it into rich soil and create something new. Learn from it, write a poem expressing it, and dance or cry it out of you to heal yourself. Create something better from the crap so that it doesn’t define your life or make you sick.”
Dr. Christiane Northrup

April 13,2019
“This month replace the word should with the word could. Could lets me know that I have a choice, which means freedom. I’m now aware that everything I do in life is done by choice…”
Louise Hay

April 6,2019
“In my life I’ve discovered that if I cling to the notion that something’s not possible, I’m arguing in favor of limitation. And if I argue for my limitations, I get to keep them.”
Gay Hendricks

March 31,2019
“Every good thing you do, every good thing you say, every good thought you think, vibrates on and on and it never ceases. The evil remains only until it is overcome by the good, the good remains forever”.
Peace Pilgrim.

Keep manifesting 🙂
Tony

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